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When Is It Time For Couples Therapy? | Santa Clarita Couples Therapy
In the mental health community, there’s a term commonly used called “Self Regulation." While there are some interchangeable words that mean the same thing, it’s pretty much just as it sounds. It’s...
You posted WHAT on Facebook? | Therapy Santa Clarita
In today’s world, I understand the power and value of social media, and everyone’s need to be heard. However, I’m regularly surprised, and periodically cringe at what people are willing to say...
The Zone of Communication | Couples Counseling Santa Clarita
When communication is poor relationships suffer the most while talking about areas that produce high conflict. I consider these areas “hot topics”. However, some couples can’t even communicate about...
Managing Your Madness
Do you ever wonder how you manage to get it all done despite how much is going on in your mind? Do you ever lie awake at night spinning with thoughts of what you have to do or what you’re worried...
The Rubber Band Effect in Marriage
On 2/15/15, the horrible news broke that a Santa Clarita resident shot and killed his wife and then turned the weapon on himself. The couple was going through divorce and people that knew them said...
What to Discuss Before Getting Married
Donald was interviewed for an article in the Santa Clarita Valley Signal, “What to Discuss before Getting Married.” View Article
10 STEPS TO OVERCOMING INFIDELITY | Santa Clarita Marriage Counseling
STEP 1: GET THE VENOM OUT The victim has a right to be pissed as long as they need to be to feel better. STEP 2: DECIDE ON A SHORT TERM PLAN What are you two going to do immediately through the next...
Couples Counseling Santa Clarita | When Is It Just Too Late For Us?
I just finished a great book called “Talent is Overrated” by Geoff Colvin. The book taught me so much, but also confirmed some of my own beliefs about the value of hard work. The book emphasizes how...
Child Therapy Santa Clarita | What Do You Do If Your Kid Is Getting High?
The short answer to this question is whatever it takes to get them to stop. This opens an abundance of options which can be overwhelming when deciding what specific steps you should take: Should you...